The Pros and Cons of Surrogacy for Intended Parents

by | Mar 7, 2023

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Gestational surrogacy is an option that offers hope to intended parents looking to start a family. According to Yale Medicine,  gestational surrogacy is when a woman carries and delivers a child for a couple or individual. “Surrogate mothers are impregnated through the use of in vitro fertilization (IVF). In this process, doctors create an embryo by fertilizing eggs from the intended mother or an egg donor with sperm from the intended father or a sperm donor. Because the gestational carrier doesn’t provide the egg, she is not genetically related to the child.”

 If you are considering gestational surrogacy to build your family, it may seem overwhelming or daunting to begin your journey.  So, it is important that intended parents educate themselves on all aspects of the surrogacy process. As with any significant decision, it’s essential to weigh the pros and cons carefully.

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Pros of Choosing Gestational Surrogacy


The benefits of gestational surrogacy include maintaining a genetic connection to the child, greater control over the pregnancy, and legal rights in many places. Additionally, the medical risks to the surrogate are lower since she is not genetically related to the child. Here are a few more pros of choosing gestational surrogacy:


  • Surrogacy allows intended parents to achieve their dream of building a family.


  • Surrogacy can be the only means to have a child with a biological connection to one or both parties.


  • Surrogacy can help those individuals or couples, who otherwise cannot have a child, become parents. These include LGBT couples and couples facing infertility.


  • Surrogacy costs are generally known up front and the outcome is more reliable than countless infertility treatments. Check out our handy Surrogacy Expense Calculator to better know what to expect.


  • Intended parents can experience all of the pregnancy milestones from conception up to the birth of the baby.


  • Surrogacy allows parents to raise their child from birth.


  • Surrogacy can create a lifelong bond with the generous woman who carries their child, if the parents so choose.


  • Intended parents can have more involvement with this personal process than they might with infertility treatments or adoption.


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Cons of Choosing Gestational Surrogacy


As you can see, there are many benefits to choosing Gestational Surrogacyy as your method for family growth. However, there are also potential drawbacks to consider. For instance, the cost of gestational surrogacy can be high, and emotional challenges can arise for all parties involved. Additionally, the legal framework can be complex and the rights of intended parents and surrogates can vary depending on location. Here are a few more cons intended parents should be aware of when considering gestational surrogacy:

  • Surrogacy can be expensive.  There are many parties and procedures involved in surrogacy, which equal more costs. 
  • Surrogacy can be complicated.  Without an experienced guide or agency, the legal and medical processes can be overwhelming.
  • Surrogacy can be lengthy.  The process includes matching, meetings, legal processes, medical procedures and, of course, a 9-month pregnancy.

Get the Right Support

Comparing your own list of pros and cons can be very helpful when making a life-changing decisions. And, if you’re considering gestational surrogacy, there are certain resources you should consider calling on.  It’s important to seek experienced legal and medical counsel, as well as the support of a trustworthy surrogacy agency.. At Family Choice Surrogacy, we understand that this can be a difficult process, but we’re here to support you and help you make the best choice for your family.

If you have questions about surrogacy, please contact Family Choice Surrogacy.

Sincerely, Family Choice Surrogacy